As a mom, there are days that you do anything to get through your day.
Between making sure everyone is fed and cleaned, all the while compiling a shopping list in your head for the grocery store and then being interrupted by some accident or dilemma; never mind the fact that you're running on just a few hours of sleep because one of the kids was awake all night. We really should receive a medal for our creativity to make it through some of those days.
I had one of those days the other day. Shocking, right?
So when I'm having "a day" with the boys, I sometimes start singing. And I'm not talking about songs on the Top 40, I mean made up songs--think Broadway musical style.
Oliver was whining in his highchair that afternoon, and I couldn't figure out what he wanted since he's not talking yet and will only sign to me selectively. Cue music. I began to sing (insert vibrato voice).
"What do you want my child? What can your mother get for you? I don't know if you want Goldfish or an apple or a piece of string cheese too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
Evan stopped eating his peanut butter sandwich and gave me a look that silently spoke, "My mom is weird." And he's not even a teenager, yet. Oh, boy.
The wonderful thing that happened, Oliver stopped crying. He too giving me that look.
I forget about the wonders of music and singing sometimes to keep peace in the house on crazy days--although, almost every day is a crazy day.
But, yeah, that's what I do. I sing through my day. Every word. Well, almost.
Sometimes, Evan will join in with me and start to sing; or he will mistakenly think that I'm singing an actual song that he knows and will say, "Mommy, that's not how that song goes." Who knows, maybe I have belted the tune out before?
"We are going to go to the park; la, la, la, la. Because we need to get out of the house; la, la, la."
I'm telling you, it takes them aback for just that brief moment. It's pure bliss. And quite comical to think about as I'm writing.
Of course, I don't do this in public. Instead, I shove (ahem, place) food in their mouths hoping that will pacify them long enough for me to grab what I need and get out.
But knock on my door at any random moment, and you may just hear show tunes coming from the house.
We moms are creative beings. We do crazy, sometimes desperate, things to just survive those trips to the store, a family dinner out or that horrible time between 4pm and 6pm...sometimes it begins at 3:30.
In fact, one time, I had the brilliant idea that I would take Evan, at the inquisitive age of 17 months, out to a mommy lunch with a few of my mommy friends. All of the toddlers were being typical, but my Evan insisted on getting out of the high chair, and no coaxing or distraction seemed to work.
So what did I do?
I grabbed a sugar packet from the pile of sugar and Splenda that had piled in front of him, I ripped it open stuck my finger in the sugar and put it in his mouth.
"Mmmmm, that's good, isn't it sweetie?"
I had him. He stayed in that high chair until his food came, all thanks to the sugar.
I rationalized my frantic attempt to keep him content with the fact that they give infants that sugar water on a pacifier when they need them to calm down or sit still.
It wasn't so bad? Right? Help me here.
I could go on about the countless things I've done in a non-ideal situation (hello, pooping toddler in the back of my car in the movie theater parking lot), just as I'm sure many of you have countless stories, too.
Thankfully the weekend is before us. Fewer mommy muddles happen then. Though not unheard of.